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XVideos gay bdsm xvideos.com/?k=gay+bdsm is not a gay BDSM site. It’s a giant straight-first tube dump with a search bar. The URL just means show me whatever got tagged gay + bdsm. That already tells you the vibe.
The honest take
As a gay guy looking for actual D/s, this page is useful the way a messy back room is useful: you’ll find something, but you’ll wade through a lot of junk first.
There’s a lot of video tens of thousands of hits. Some of it slaps. Bound Gods style studio work, DreamBoyBondage twink in rope stuff, Disruptive Films scenes, bearded doms wrecking someone on a porch or in a basement. If you want volume and you’re not picky, you will get off.
A lot of it is not BDSM. It’s rough anal with a collar in the title. Or a 19-second chastity teaser. Or step brothers BDSM summer sex, that is just two guys fucking with one pair of cuffs. Tube sites reward whoever types the keyword, not whoever actually built a scene. You feel that immediately.
What works:

Studio clips still leak through: bondage, edging, whipping, piss, dogplay, humiliation. When it’s good, it’s good.
Amateur my dirtiest fantasy energy is here if that’s your thing messy, horny, not overproduced.
Filters for length and quality exist. Use them or you’ll drown in 53 second clips.

What sucks:

Ads. Constant premium nag for XVideos Red. This is a free tube site pretending it’s a destination.
Tagging is sloppy. Gay BDSM pulls in bi content, het coded sissy stuff, and videos that are just raw sex with a leather vest.
Consent theater is nonexistent. You’re not watching a house that talks about negotiation. You’re watching uploads. That matters if you actually do this IRL and don’t want the porn to feel like a snuff title generator.
The homepage still thinks you’re straight until you fight it. Gay is a filter, not the product.

Would I bookmark it?
Yes, as a search, not as a home. I’ll use it when I want a specific clip fast or I’m hunting a performer. I would not send a guy who’s newly into kink here and say this is the scene. It’s too noisy, too extractive, and too willing to call anything BDSM if it gets clicks.
If you want gay BDSM that feels made for us better houses, clearer power exchange, fewer popunders pay a studio or use a gay focused fetish site. If you want a filthy, endless buffet and you can ignore the ads, this search page will feed you.
That’s the review: plentiful, horny, poorly curated, and very XVideos.