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I’ve been on ThisVid’s gay BDSM section enough times that I know exactly what I’m walking into. It’s not a pretty studio site. It’s not Bound Gods or Kink with lighting and a safe word card at the start. It’s a big, dirty tube of homemade and half-homemade stuff, and if that’s what you actually want, it delivers.
The Gay BDSM category is packed. Bondage, hogties, ballbusting, spanking, rubber, leather, breath play, chastity, verbal, outdoor, the whole mess. A lot of it is real amateur energy: someone’s basement, someone’s motel, someone’s backyard, a guy who clearly knows what he’s doing with rope and a guy who is just figuring it out on camera. That rawness is the point. You get scenes that feel like they happened because two people wanted them to happen, not because a producer needed eight minutes of product.
What’s good:
The volume is the first thing. You can sit there and scroll for a long time without seeing the same five professional clips recycled. Short clips sit next to longer ones. Some of the longer amateur videos are the ones that stick slow buildup, actual tension, a guy who’s clearly into being used rather than performing “into it.” HD badges show up often enough that you’re not stuck in 2009 quality all night.
I like that you don’t have to make an account just to watch the public stuff. You land, you click, you watch. If you want playlists, favorites, comments, following a particular uploader, then you sign up. That’s fair. The community side is actually useful if you find someone who uploads the exact flavor you like certain kind of hogtie, certain kind of verbal, certain body type. Playlists help more than the search does.
The kink range is wider than most “gay BDSM” pages on bigger tubes. You get the expected leather and whip stuff, but also the weirder, meaner, more specific amateur corners. If your taste is a little off the main road, this place is more likely to have it than a sanitized mainstream gay tube.
What’s annoying:
Quality is a lottery. For every solid ten minute scene there’s a twenty second phone clip with bad light, a title that barely makes sense, and a thumbnail that oversells it. You will click duds. That’s the tax you pay for volume.
Ads are there. Not the worst I’ve seen, but they’re there. The player is fine, not great. Sometimes it feels like the site was built in an earlier internet and never fully grew up. Search and filters are okay if you already know what tag you want; they’re not great if you’re trying to narrow tied up, not too short, actual chemistry.
Private videos are a mixed bag. Some of the better amateur stuff sits behind an account or a friend request, which is how these communities work, but it also means the public grid is a bit of a tease. A lot of clips are short. If you want long, narrative, produced BDSM, this is the wrong neighborhood.
And because it’s user uploaded, you get everything that comes with that: uneven consent presentation, messy titles, the occasional clip that feels off. You have to use your own judgment. I treat it like any amateur tube watch what looks clearly consensual and skip the rest.
Who it’s for:
If you want polished studio BDSM with models who look like they just left the gym and a director off camera, go somewhere else. If you want a lot of gay BDSM that feels homemade, specific, sometimes sloppy, sometimes surprisingly hot, ThisVid’s category is one of the bigger free piles still standing.
I use it the way a lot of us use these sites: late, specific mood, scrolling until something actually does it. When it hits, it hits because it doesn’t look like content. When it misses, you just keep going. That’s the whole site in one sentence.